As I sat in the minivan, my back screamed in protest. My legs felt cramped because we were 15 people plus luggage in an 11-seat minivan, and we would be on the road for almost 12 more hours. The journey to the SDA Youth and Pathfinder camp in Siem Reap from Mondulkiri usually takes eight or nine hours, but because the roads were bumpy and the car was old, with engine issues, we could not go very fast.

Frustration bubbled within me. “Why are we going so slow?” I grumbled to myself. “Why do we need to stop so often? I want to be there already!” It was easy to feel exasperated in a situation like this, but then I took a deep breath and remembered the purpose of my service. I came to Cambodia to help others, build lasting friendships, experience a new culture, and, most importantly, lead people to Christ. Focusing on the negatives wouldn’t get me anywhere.

So, I decided to change my perspective. Instead of complaining, I started to see the journey as part of the adventure and my service. I focused on the positive things around me: the fantastic, beautiful Cambodian landscape, the anticipation of meeting new people, the excitement of the upcoming camp, and many more.

This shift in mindset made a big difference for me. The hours passed, but they felt less daunting. I started to enjoy the company of my friends in the minivan. Finally, after a few more breaks and even a minor car breakdown, we reached the SDA campground; it was already dark. The combined Youth/Pathfinder camp was full of energy, with around 200 young adults gathered. Despite the challenges of the journey, the camp itself was great.

I made many new friends and participated in fun games and activities. The trip’s highlight was witnessing the baptism of 16 young people who chose to dedicate their lives to God.

It was a powerful experience that reminded me of the impact we can have on others through our friendships and faith. Reflecting on this journey, I realize that we learn the most valuable lessons, not in comfortable situations but during challenging ones.

It was a reminder that our perspective shapes our reality. Even in difficult situations, focusing on the positive cannot change the condition, but it will make a difference for you. I encourage you to join me in praying that we can continue to lead more people to God through our positive example and genuine friendships.

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