While it may seem like a big decision to go into the mission field to minister to the Ama in Papua New Guinea (and it is), another great decision relates to whether God would have me serve single or married — an aspect of my life I have prayed much about, truly wanting God to choose for me. I also believe God has an ideal timing for His plans; “God’s purposes know no haste and no delay.” 1

I could see the benefit of being single based on Jesus’ own words concerning being a eunuch “for the kingdom of heaven’s sake” (Matthew 19:12). Prayerfully, I considered Paul’s counsel in 1 Corinthians 7. I could resonate with the benefits of being entirely focused on ministry. I have served as a pastor for nine years, during which time I have been single, trusting God knew what was best.

But just because I knew these biblical principles does not mean I did not prayerfully consider the blessings and benefits God might have in store in a godly marriage, especially since it is “not good that the man should be alone” (Genesis 2:18), and Proverbs speaks of the blessings of a godly wife (Proverbs 18:22; 19:14; 31:10-31).

Having come to realize that living by God’s principles for His purpose means openness to His providence and guidance, I have prayed regarding marriage and keep trusting the Lord. I am learning that God loves to gift His children with surprises and unexpected blessings. What might God have in store?

Thank you for your prayers and support as I prepare to launch.

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